I Might Sound Like a Psycho

J and I were recently at our swingers' club and J ended up chatting with a lovely Iranian-Canadian man who works in Portland. His wife lives in B.C. and he talked for a long time with J about his particular fantasies and his wife's fantasies.

-This guy didn't know the vocabulary of hot wifing, including the term "bull." However, the role of the bull was exactly this man's fantasy. He loved the idea of being with someone's partner while the partner was there watching. However, the idea of cuckolding did not do anything for him. In fact, it turned him off to think about humiliating the woman's husband/partner. It was so fascinating to talk to this man, have him explain everything that he was into (with the introduction every time "I might sound like a psycho, but this is what I am into..."), and realize that he felt totally alone in his fantasies. I hope he discovers the vast community out there that relishes in their hot wife and cuckolding fantasies!

-The guy's wife had "hot husband" fantasies: she absolutely loves listening to him spin hot tales of him fucking other women. In fact, he said that it is the only way that she gets off super hard during sex. From what we know, hot husband fantasies are much more rare than hot wife fantasies.

-This leads me to our most recent sex session. J and I explored dirty talking around hot husband fantasies. We whispered steamy things about J fucking women casually, at school, slipping up their dresses or skirts and just pounding at them until he comes. It was effing hot. I loved it. I loved it even more thinking about J pounding in doggy style, and visualizing a really hot and seductive woman. It makes me wonder about my own fantasies and actual comfort with J engaging in casual or NSA sex.

More later! Have hot weekends all! ;-D